Help in usual ways

To get through life challenges, all you need is just one person, it could even be a stranger, a child or the person you least expect, who may not have everything structured for you to follow, but will offer you just a piece of what you need to snap out & keep living as you ought to.  Sometimes it may not be what you want ,it may come in the most crude way but still helpful.

Thank you to all, that are changing lives for the better everyday and every moment with your smile, wisdom, patience, Love, resources, Presence, and so much more. You’re the unsung heroes

Happy week ahead

Author: Ajal Mary Theodorah

ABUSE IN THE PURSUIT FOR FORGIVENESS

There are some individuals who find joy & pride in seeing or making others who are trying to make amends or are #remorseful for their past actions, feel guilty or worse even after apologizing time & time again.

Seek forgiveness with deep remorse & make amends where possible, but, let forgiveness come when it’s ready.

Don’t become a slave to your past.

It is true that the damage you might have caused nothing can ever repair or makeup, but when you show remorse and it becomes a ground for abuse, blackmail, torture , torment etc, it’s better to step aside. Hurt and hurt doesn’t bring healing.

Forgiveness is good for healing for both the offended and offender especially the one who has recognized their fault and is remorseful.

Author: Ajal Mary Theodorah