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Disclaimer: I am not a medical practitioner and These are my personal views as someone passionate about promoting maternal safety.
Pregnancy news is sometimes both exciting and filled with anxiety for couples or intending parents when they think about the child delivery process.
A story is told about Malika and Paul.
Malika and Her husband Paul were excited about their pregnancy however, as the pregnancy progressed , Malika became anxious about the delivery process and all the stories that surround it.
She was a woman in her mid twenties and believed there are minimal delivery risks associated with younger women as compared to older women .
She exercised whenever you could, ate like any other pregnant woman, went for antenatal care,took her vitamins and did what every average pregnant Ugandan Woman does.
Two weeks before her due date she came into labour. And because she was yet to get leave from work, she hadn’t travelled back to her mother’s place and her husband was on work safari for a week. A colleague at work took her to the hospital.
She made a few phone calls to her husband and mother . Her mother was in Arua city which is 14 hours away from Busia where she was.
Malika was a first time mother, and after an agonizing 16 hours, she was just 4cm dilated with very little progress. Her college Rachael suggested they do a scan just to check if things are okay. They requested for a scan and during the scan it was discovered that the baby was in a breech position and had a very weak heart beat. Which prompted that an emergency C-section be done in order to save both the life of the baby and Mother .
Malika was this strong woman, who even when the contractions came in (labour pain), she only held onto the hospital bed and closed her eyes but not a single sound did she make.
But upon receiving the news about the C-section, Malika started wailing like someone had passed on, all her bravery was gone. She even almost collapsed but was supported by the doctor and Rachael.
They were then asked to make a deposit of Ugx.400, 000/= which she did and was rushed to the theatre for an emergency C-section.
To be continued….
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Author : Ajal Mary Theodorah
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